Trans Awareness Week Is Here, And We’re Celebrating With You!
Reflection on Transgender Awareness
We stand by the notion that it’s vital to remember that our differences add value to ourselves, our families, our communities, and the larger world. One of the most amazing things about this country is how beautifully diverse we are. So many people have an issue with those who are part of the trans community. Here at the Phoenix Rising Centers, we assert it’s a fundamental human right for everyone to understand that trans people are worthy, wanted, and needed. Also, Trans people are not just “transgender” or “gender-nonconforming.” We are a diverse group of people who may or may not fit a particular category. We know this can be where the discomfort comes in for many, but we’re not scary! Get to know us—We are here and deserving of respect and dignity. There is nothing “wrong” with us. There is something “wrong” with the judgment and fear around our existence. No—we are not predators. No—we are not trying to convert young children. And, no— we are not doing this out of a trauma response. We are just ourselves. And it feels good. It’s freeing. We encourage everyone to live their best lives and craft a story of their truth, whatever that may be. We are not harming anyone; we are just living our lives and trying to find joy and peace, just like everyone on this planet.
It’s evident that many people are afraid of the unknown—fear of being judged, not understanding something, fear of our truths. When we are confronted with something new, it can be hard to adjust our expectations. This is why it is so important to try to remain open to conversations around gender and sexuality—to be able to recognize them. It can trigger you when someone uses language or pronouns that do not quite fit your experience of your own identity (or another’s!). If someone tells you they are transgender, but they don’t “look” like the stereotypical image of what you think of as a transgender woman or man or non-binary, stop yourself… check yourself— your notions about gender may be too small. It’s time to try to expand and open your mind more about how people can express themselves in the myriad ways we do as humans. Celebrate that. It’s such a beautiful thing. Notice your fear and trigger(s) and step back. It’s ok to see where we have work to do. We ALL have work to do. There’s no shame in that game. It would help if you did NOT belittle someone or ask someone who is trans nonbinary or gender expressive to educate you about your ignorance. Transgender and gender-expressive folks should be able to live just as those who are gender-normative do. Remember: it’s not someone else’s job to educate you; it’s up to you to do your work. Yes, it can be challenging, but it’s also FUN! And a great bonus is that you learn and grow and EVOLVE into a better, more informed person.
What is Transgender Awareness Week?
Transgender Awareness Week happens each year between November 13– 19, when people and organizations around the country participate in educating, celebrating, and increasing the visibility of the Transgender community. It is a weeklong series of events and advocacy for transgender people and their allies. The week includes events like movie nights and walks, runs, or a line-up of activities organized by different organizations where people can come together to support the trans community. It is a time to celebrate and educate about the issues facing transgender individuals. It is a chance for us to recognize that trans people are everywhere, in every community, and across all demographics. Finally, it is an opportunity to show support for Tran’s well-being.
I am Visible: Trans Awareness Week
Trans people are facing increasing levels of harassment, discrimination, and violence. We need support in our fight against these harmful practices. We have to make sure that the voices of trans people are heard and that we are treated with dignity and respect. It is also a perfect time to recognize the beauty and diversity of the transgender experience and to appreciate the importance of affirming those of us who don’t fall into the majority expression of what is an “appropriate” or “comfortable” gender identity for those who are not trans. At the Phoenix Rising Centers, we focus on supporting ourselves, our trans friends, and those in our family.
Let’s face it: we are still far from seeing ourselves reflected in media and entertainment, which is not okay. Visibility is a critical part of accessing the resources and services we need, but unfortunately, many trans people still face discrimination when they go out into the world.
This week, Phoenix Rising Centers is taking a stand for trans visibility to create awareness that being transgender is valuable in our society and how Transgender people add beauty and depth to the world that would be missing if what we saw was only gender homogeneity (BORING!).
We want to hear from you!! Please share your thoughts about what it means to be visible in your community and how we can support you. Let it be a festive week to celebrate our diversity and learn from each other’s experiences. Let’s show the world what it means to be visible!